In a candid interview with *Vanity Fair*, Selena Gomez opened up about her dreams of starting a family by age 35. The 32-year-old singer shared that she cannot carry her own children due to medical complications, which she has had to come to terms with. “I unfortunately can’t carry my own children. I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the baby’s in jeopardy,” she explained.

Despite facing lupus and bipolar disorder, Selena expressed gratitude for alternatives like surrogacy and adoption, viewing them as blessings. “I’m really thankful for the other outlets for people who are dying to be moms. I’m one of those people,” she said. Her own mother was adopted, further inspiring her journey toward motherhood.

Selena’s boyfriend, music producer Benny Blanco, has been a strong source of support. “I’ve never been loved this way,” she remarked, highlighting his understanding and encouragement regarding her limitations. Sources close to the couple reveal that they have discussed both adoption and surrogacy, with hints that they might have even begun the process.

While plans include a wedding before starting a family, Selena is open to parenthood occurring sooner if the opportunity arises. Ultimately, she emphasized that her happiness as a mother is what truly matters. “At the end of the day, I don’t care. It’ll be my baby,” she concluded.